Move On !!!

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Phew !!! There comes a Time in Life where one has to finally take that Plunge, Make a Defining Decision or rather....MOVE ON !!!

Holding on is being brave, but letting go and moving on is often what makes us stronger and happier.
My Views on the same - 

Expectation – Don’t change who you are for anyone else.  It’s wiser to lose someone over being who you are, rather than being someone you’re not !!! 

Actions don’t match their words. – Everybody deserves somebody who helps them look forward to tomorrow.  If someone has the opposite effect on you, because they are consistently inconsistent and their actions don’t match up with their words, it’s time to let them go!!!

Coercing someone to love you. – Let us keep in mind that we can’t force anyone to love us.  We shouldn’t beg someone to stay when they want to leave.  That’s what love is all about – freedom.  However, the end of love is not the end of life.  It should be the beginning of an understanding that love sometimes leaves for a reason, but never leaves without a lesson !!!

Breaking your trust. – When you completely trust a person, you’ll automatically get one of two results – a FRIEND for life or a LESSON for life.Either you confirm the fact that this person cares about you, or you get the opportunity to weed them out of your life and make room for those who do.  In the end you’ll discover who’s fake, who’s true, and who would risk it all for you.  And trust me, some people will totally surprise you!!!

Overlooks your worth. – There comes a point when you have to let go and stop chasing some people.  If someone wants you in their life, they’ll find a way to put you there.  Sometimes you just need to let go and accept the fact that they don’t care for you the way you care for them. Letting go is oftentimes easier than holding on.  We think it’s too hard to let go, until we actually do!! KNOW YOUR WORTH !!!!

Never given a chance to speak your mind. – Sometimes an argument saves a relationship, whereas silence breaks it.  SPEAK UP and you won’t have regrets.  Life is not about making others happy.  Life is about being honest and sharing your happiness with others!!!

Sacrificing your happiness. – If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative before you know it.  Know when to close the account!!!

Disliking your current situation, routine, job, etc. – It’s better to be a failure at something you love than to succeed at doing something you hate.  Don’t let someone who gave up on their dreams talk you out of going after yours.  The best thing you can do in life is follow your heart.  Take risks.  Don’t just make the safe and easy choices because you’re afraid of what might happen.  If you do, nothing will ever happen.  Chances must be taken, mistakes must be made, and lessons must be learned.  It might be an uphill climb, but when you reach that mountaintop it will be worth every ounce of blood, sweat and tears you put into it!!!

Obsessing over, and living in, the past. – Eventually you will overcome the heartache!!  Eventually you will realize that the secret to happiness and freedom is not about control or revenge, but in letting things unfold naturally, and learning from your experiences over the course of time!!!

After all, what matters most is not the first, but the final chapter of your life, which unveils the details of how well you wrote your story.  So let go of the past, set yourself free, and open your mind to the possibility of new relationships and priceless experiences!!!

And the one thing you should never let go of is hope.  Remember what you deserve and keep pushing forward.  Someday all the pieces will come together.  Unimaginably good things will transpire in your life, even if everything doesn’t turn out exactly the way you had anticipated.  And you will look back at the times that have passed, smile, and ask yourself, “How did I get through all of that?”

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Until Next Time; Cheers!!